I met Patty Lennon at a Mindful Mothering conference a few months ago. She handed me her card when we met. Mom Gets a Life. Huh. Interested.
We sat next to each other–she took notes on her laptop and I noticed that she had some sort of system for making purposeful use out of the conference presentations toward her blogging, perhaps her own personal life–it seemed she might be putting items on her calendar or to do list, or something. Not to mention she was tweeting, I think. Anyway, it turns out we had some great conversations and lunch. I only wished we’d been able to connect some more. It felt we had more to talk about. I’ve been waiting for my right moment to look at her website, Mom Gets A Life –>. Today I did and I’m excited that Patty has practical suggestions to bring us some clarity and simplicity. I posted my own comment on Patty’s post, “Dump Your Massive Task List: A 30-Day Challenge!–>!”
I need a record of my comment on her page, so here it is:
Patty:
I am revving into a new cycle and have tons of energy and feel like I’m gaining some clarity. I’m a driven person and willing to throw out old ideas, so this is working well for me. I am reading The 4-Hour Work Week and gleaning ideas from that to apply to my ways of working at home. Yesterday someone who is launching her own career into coaching people into finding their own passions (kind of like you, in a sense), was telling me how she thinks the most useful approach is managing all of this by “mindful scheduling.” Then last night as I was reading “4-Hour” I was receiving this message about “working from priorities” and letting the rest go (elimination). Today I am feeling these are opposites and I am embracing the work-from-priorities advice. The key piece is elimination, which it seems like your post above is leading to. I can’t say I’m going to run out and make my list of 1,000 things, but I can definitely see the power in it (maybe I will later?). Right now, I’m easily casting things to the wind, so I think right now the steam has been generated to propel me. I’ll give a concrete example: I keep volunteering for more on the Parent Association of our school. I want to follow through with things I’ve already volunteered for, but I’m going to find ways of working more efficiently, not harder (right from 4-Hour, of course). I’m responsible for taking notes at the PA meetings and I have the task I’ve been avoiding which is to type them up. So, today I’m going to tackle it, but I’m going to put them into a format which is much more simplified and focused on the PA group action items, but I’m going to leave out the fluff–no use being a reporter on everything everyone said in the meeting. Just action items. And, I’ll present the “notes” and clearly state that this is the level of note taking I’m willing to sustain. If someone wants to do more work on the notes, they may have at it! Yea, Me! (By the way, it was such good fortune to meet you in NY at the MOM Mindful Mothering conference. That was a great day and I’d wished we had more time to connect there.
I’m on facebook. Email me if you can’t find me. I’m friends with Families for Conscious Living and my blog-FB page is “Hearth and Gnome .com”
I think that the magic behind this massive exercise is the consciousness it would bring to what we’re doing. I’m not convinced yet, but in the Brain of Rachel, these things don’t go away easily. What do you think? Is anyone going to be taking on this challenge?
I will say, I am most definitely ready to dump some tasks. I have to go handle the simplification of my job as Parent Association note-taker. If you don’t know where else to start, why not try Patty’s 30-day challenge?